Preheat oven to 325º F. Line an 8×8 or similar size baking pan with parchment paper, and set aside.
Separate egg yolks from the egg whites.
Prepare the cake by combining the almond flour, arrowroot, baking powder, salt and baking soda in a medium size mixing bowl, and whisking to combine.
In a smaller bowl, add the egg yolks, coconut oil, honey (or date syrup), almond milk and vanilla, and whisk until well mixed.
Add the wet ingredients to the dry, and stir until just combined, without over mixing.
Use a hand or stand mixer to beat the egg whites until soft peaks form.
Add half of the whipped egg whites to the cake batter, using a spatula to gently fold in the egg whites until they are mostly mixed in. Add the rest of the egg whites, using the spatula to gently bring batter “up” from the bottom to mix into the whites, being careful not to stir too much of the air out of the batter.
Add the mixture to the baking dish, smoothing out the top.
Bake the cake for 40-50 minutes, until a toothpick inserted into the center comes out clean. Allow the cake to fully cool. Flip the cake upside down and place it back into the cake pan. Use a fork to poke holes across the top of the cake. The holes will allow the milk mixture to seep into the soft cake.
Prepare the “Tres Leches” milk by whisking either the dairy ingredients or non-dairy ingredients together with sweetener of choice.
Pour the “tres leches” milk mixture over the cake. Cover and refrigerate for 2 hours, up to overnight, to allow the milk to soak into the cake.
Top the cake with a thick layer of whipped cream (dairy or coconut cream-based) and fresh strawberries.
Refrigerate cans of full fat coconut cream overnight. Before opening, "shake" cans to see if you can hear the liquid sloshing. If you don't hear the sound, your coconut cream has separated.
Flip the can upside down, and open the can from the bottom. The liquid will have settled to the bottom, and you need to pour off the liquid in order to separate the cream.
Add the solid coconut cream to chilled mixing bowl, and then use a hand mixer or a stand mixer to whip the coconut cream. Add sweetener of choice, and continue whipping until the cream has stiffened.